Are you sex material or boyfriend material ?

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Are you viewed as sex material or boyfriend material? This is about a perception a girl can have of you. A perception that you can create, just like a role, something you can go in and out of. Many girls wonder, what is this guy’s role to me? What category does he belong to? All humans do that by the way, we men do this too, we think about someone and we put them into mental boxes of potential friends, potential one nights stand, potential girlfriend or potential friend with benefit. With practice, you find out that you can choose what role you want to take. This is also a part of playing the game.

The characteristics of sex material

Sex material guys are often promiscuous. They don’t look at sex as a big deal. They don’t judge, they have confidence and they have sexual humor. The clothes they are wearing screams “player”. But most importantly maybe is what they DON’T do. They don’t show their boyfriend sides. A common thread is that you enjoy the “party life”, and don’t take things seriously. A consequence of this is that girls will sleep with you fast (they don’t wait with sex) because they view fast sex as something NON-serious. something they can do with NON-serious people. Scientifically speaking it is called “short-term mating“.

The characteristics of boyfriend material

To be viewed as a potential boyfriend is about you being perceived “serious”. Look at the bachelor TV program, the people who are there take things seriously, they talk seriously, behave seriously and think seriously, and therefore this vibe shines through, instead of being a wildly promiscuous party boy who doesn’t care. In a relationship/marriage – women often look for a stable guy who appears balanced. A guy who has his life together in terms of a good job, a good economy, his friends are stable and he may be somewhat polite and romantic. Examples could be that he plays love songs on the guitar, that he buys her roses and goes on dates, he talks about love and a long-lasting relationship. To sum it up: someone she can introduce to her family with pride, without being ashamed to present you.

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Destroying the illusion of long-term relationships

If you want more experience with girls, it’s a good thing to destroy the inner picture/dream of a relationship. And destroy the illusion of finding “the one”. The reason for this is to get rid of the belief that something “external” will make you happy. That long-term relationship will somehow “fulfill” you. If you get a girlfriend you still need to pay your bills, clean your room, eat healthily and exercise etc. Having a partner is not a “big deal”, it’s just ONE other thing. Like having a job, having a good friend, having a hobby, exercising and having a partner. See, it’s just a 20% thing, not a 100% thing.

Many of today’s relationships end. Serial monogamy is the norm in Western countries. But the most important thing in destroying this inner illusion is that you can deal more correctly with reality. You come across as more non-needy since your mind controls your body language, your words, and your vibe. It’s ironic, many girls want a relationship MORE with you if you have shattered this illusion. You don’t need to tell them this explicitly, but if you have destroyed this illusion, they will pick up the non-needy vibe, making you more attractive! Relationships are not something you should pursue with a person in the beginning but are something that comes later either way, don’t focus on it now. As a general rule, let the girl bring up the topic of a relationship first.

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The paradox: The red pill

Girls often want guys with experience, guys who know these kinds of things from experience. You need to know what you are doing. If you are new in this world of seduction and game, the chances are that you don’t know these concepts and dynamics. Without knowledge, it is hard to adjust or to get the results that you want. So a girl wants a guy with experience and confidence!

How do you get experience and confidence? You get it by getting positive feedback, or more specifically, that you see that girls want to have sex with you. Remember that girls have a tendency to have sex fast with guys who appear as “sex material”? So the trick is to first be viewed as sex material. You don’t need to be viewed like this forever, but for 3-5 years is good enough to learn some game. In these years you have to think like a player. This will get you a lot of sex, experience, and confidence. Your chances of finding an attractive girlfriend increase with experience.

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How To Seduce Girls

You Seduce a girl, by being bold and brave, sexual and non-judgmental, and make her invest and qualify. The odds of having sex with her fast is higher when you do this. After having sex with her, you can change the dynamic into a long-term relationship. It is simple to change from being viewed as sex material to boyfriend material. But it is NOT so simple to change from being viewed as boyfriend material, or friend material to sex material! This is the reason many guys choose to have sex with a girl first and then build a relationship.

Practice makes perfect, so it can pay off to play the game for some time before settling down. The way to go about it is to learn the game and have sex fast (on day 1 or 2). Use the game to get her into bed. Then after sex, you can be “yourself” more and more. This is crucial for having a long-term relationship, that both of you are yourself. After sex, the power dynamic is flipped. You have the power. If she keeps coming back, let her continue to invest in you. After a longer period of seeing each other, having sex and her investing in you, you can invest back by relationship or commitment. read how people screen for a partner here: https://abundance7.com/how-to-find-your-perfect-partner/

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